Put your mind at rest and help your body get some sleep.
Do ideas and thoughts seem to flood your mind at bedtime? These mental relaxation
techniques may help you reduce them so you can relax and fall asleep. You can listen
to them now, download them for later, or print them out to read as you go.
Thought-Stopping
In thought-stopping, you willfully force your mind to think thoughts that keep you
awake. For example, you may think about your boss chewing you out tomorrow. You
mull it over, every detail.
Now, try, suddenly, ordering yourself to "Stop!" If the thought creeps back, yell
to yourself again, "Stop!" Keep interrupting your unpleasant thought with unpleasant
commands to yourself.
There are two explanations why the thought-stopping relaxation technique works:
- The word Stop! forces an immediate shifting of our attention, which
will lead us away from preoccupying thoughts.
- Thought-stopping proves you have control. That awareness can lead to self-assuring,
self-accepting thoughts — thoughts that are more conducive to sleep.
Reverse Psychology
Worrying that you must sleep can cause performance anxiety — and
actually keep you awake.
Reversing the thought pattern, telling yourself you must stay awake for
as long as possible, can help you become sleepy naturally without putting yourself
under pressure.
Breathing
Inhale deeply through your nose. Then pucker your lips, and exhale slowly. Breathe
out as long as possible. Imagine that the sound of your breath exhaling is tension
draining from your body.
Counting
Counting is another popular relaxation technique. Close your eyes and relax. Count
backwards slowly from 100 to zero. Visualize the numbers being written slowly and
carefully by a calligrapher, or on a staircase, with the numbers descending with
the steps. Use your imagination for other scenarios. Continue until sleep overtakes
you.
Creating Pictures
Think of an object that you find simple and pleasing. Study every detail in your
mind. Or picture a color shifting into beautiful patterns and hues, blending and
changing. Imagine a quiet setting — snowflakes softly falling or a spring day
in the country, with cows and horses grazing in a meadow.
Feel the picture by engaging all of your senses. If you're on the beach, feel the
sun on your face, your toes in the sand, the breeze on your skin, the ocean air
smell.
Floating
Floating can be an effective relaxation technique. Imagine you're floating on air.
Picture yourself floating like a falling leaf, or riding down a long escalator.
The lower you float, the calmer you are.
Practice any of these relaxation techniques as often as you like. For more help,
read about Muscle Relaxation Techniques.
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